A soulmate

This generation is making it so hard to find someone to actually build with.
Soulmate means the highest level of friendship. The interesting thing is that we want a soulmate like, who support us where we are week. But the deficiencies that are in us should not be in them. Actually we want them according to our convenience. We can not say it’s a soulmate.

Soulmate is who understands us, how we feel, he /she does not have to say this without saying what he/she understands he is a soulmate.
A very beautiful feeling.

I think any person in your life who has become the inspiration of any change in you, he/she is your soulmate.

It’s not at all that, emotional challenges do not come in your relationship, but in spite of the ups and down of life and in spite of innumerable shortcomings with which your soul is connected  it is your soulmate in the right way.

Nowdays people say that they are not able to maintain the relationship, but they do not understand that in order to maintain the relationship, first they have to build like that.

Every relationship will get boaring after you have been together for years. Love isn’t a feeling it’s commitment to love everyday physically and emotionally.  it’s difficult, it’s not always laugh, smiles and fun. people tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else, because the spark is gone. No, that’s not how it works. you want somebody to never give up on you, and love you unconditionally. then do the same. Be the change. this isn’t the movie. Love someone when you don’t want to. when they aren’t the easiest to deal with. when they are hard to love, its called a “Real Soulmate.”

Note to self

We can never change the work done in our past, but we get to see the result of those works in our present.
And our every present day, tomorrow becomes our past.

And we are very lucky that everyday we get our new today. So try whatever you do today, do good for yourself and others because tomorrow it will become past again and we will not be able to change anything.

So make it a great day.😊

Happiness in relationships

Many people associate happiness with money and many people associate it with relationships. They do not understand that they will not feel happy in their relationships as long as they are not happy themselves. Relationship problems are increasing rapidly and the main reason behind this is that we expect too much from the other person. We hope that they make us feel happy. We lie in our minds like, ‘If our partner buys us a dress, we will be happy’ or ‘If our partner is planning a surprise for us, then we will be happy’. This problem is not only with the couple but it is with each relationship whether it is a parental relationship or a sibling relationship or friendship.

Here are some facts below that can help you be happy:


Take care of yourself
Take care of yourself. Do not prioritize the other person over yourself and do not let him do the same. If you give too much priority to someone and you get nothing in return then you are preparing a recipe for your disappointment.

Get started
If you want to go somewhere, plan it yourself. Do not wait for your partner, parent or child to take you there. Let them know that they will like you if they come together. However there is no need to be disappointed if they refuse. Keep your plan going.


Give personal time
You need to give time to your partner and give your personal time to maintain a healthy relationship.

The conclusion
We set unrealistic expectations from other people in our lives and believe that if they truly love us, they will express it in the same way. This is almost certainly false. It only hurts relationships rather than doing any good. We need to understand that the only person who can make you feel really happy is yourself.

Found something true..

A human being can learn anything at any time. And unknowingly something new I have learned today.

Today After a long vacation, I sat down to write something, But perhaps it was happening for the first time that despite having so many things in mind, I was not able to write anything. So many questions, so many answers to those questions, lots of thinking and memories, and some untold things, Everything was going on in the mind, but still there was nothing to write.

I Was thinking something like this while sitting, then the phone rang, I picked up the phone and saw that a friend’s massage had come.By the way, I have very few friends with whom I talk, but she is a bit special, because she  also like to read and write like me. Seeing her massage, I asked her how much I am trying. I want to write so much but I am not able to write anything. She said dont worry,  it happens sometimes.

I said, it would have happened, but I used to write with such passion that it is not that my writing is over now. I felt sad, because this was the thing that used to make me happy, but now I am not able to do that either.

Then she said, maybe you are in “Writer’s block” condition, I felt a bit strange to hear, so I asked her what are these “Writer’s blocks”. Then explained to me that, this is a condition where The person who writes, that person cannot write for some time or his ability to write is reduced. and this is called “Writer’s block.”

This was the first time I heard that something like this happens, after talking to her, I searched Google and got information about many such conditions.

Then I realized how many conditions we have for humans, there are  some feelings and situation according to our every mood. If seen, human lives are very intersting, but if we want then only we can make it as much intersting. If we want, we can make 365 days of the year the best days of our lives. But if we try …

I got the solution of my writing block, but just think what mood you are in and how much intersting you can make it. Just try to be happy, the reason will be found automatically.

Do what comforts your soul

Comfort is that which is difficult to describe in words. It can only be felt. It is very important to be happy to live a good life but unfortunately happiness has vanished from the lives of most people. Different people have different ideas of happiness/comfort. Some people believe that it can be found in money, some people are in love then feel happy and some feel happiness and satisfaction when they do good work in professional life.

But it is often seen that people do not recognize that comfort of theirs.
Only we can understand what our comfort is from. Finding a purpose is a lifelong challenge, a lifelong struggle. A career choice isn’t necessarily going to give us that. Finding fulfillment in the things we do whether it be a career, hobby, charity, or just in our daily lives is what truly we should be “doing” with our lives.

In the easiest language, comfort means doing something that makes you happy, whether the situation is according to you or not.
And comfort is the only thing that can keep you tied to you irrespective of the situation. That is why if you know your comfort then do not let it get lost.

Do you believe in magic?

Do you believe in magic or miracle?
Hearing these questions, some people will say yes and some people will say no. I think the people whose life is going according to them, they will say yes, and those who are unhappy, they will say No.

When you find yourself in a hopeless situation, remember that  Someone is always around you with a positive energy, that is magic. Just you need to be confident. Because you are the magic creator, you are the magician.There is a need to keep Believe on yourself. Just because things have not worked out exactly how you planned does not mean that nothing good can happen in your life.You cannot blame it on luck, maybe something good will happen. No matter what your situation is saying to you, God has not left you. Tell yourself this until you believe it.

It has been my personal experience that my biggest blessings come after the darkest storms. I know that when I am going through a rough time, I cannot lose hope. Because I knew nothing could go wrong with me, yes some things did not go according to me, but it does not mean that my happiness is not available to me.

I believe myself that there is magic, I believe that there are miracles.And I also believe that there is also a magic creator. I believe myself. We just need to look into ourselves. Whenever we are disappointed, we blame on luck, people, or circumstances. But have you ever tried to pay attention to your surroundings. Have you ever tried to feel positive energy around you? If not, then I think you should try this once. You will have faith in both your magic and your inner spirit.

We are all the creators/magicians of our life and we can also create magic in our life. There is a need to just trust yourself. Because magic can happen anytime in life.

“Let yourself feel everything you need to feel.”

In the society we live in, we are taught from childhood that which emotions are to be felt and which are not. Like, we should not cry, we should not get angry.

Unfortunately,  The more we try to run away from this emotions, the more we feel it.Try as much as you want, you cannot run away from these emotions. it follows us everywhere. Difficult emotions, like  anger, loneliness, fear,  confusion, are a natural part of the human experience. It’s just not possible to avoid feeling bad.

According to the society, we should not cry because it makes us look weak. And it is not good for us. But I feel like,
The issues come when we judge our emotions or refuse to feel them.
I truly believe that there is a place for every emotion and that it is totally ok to feel them.

It seems to me that this is a very important thing to remember in order to enjoy life. Far too often we try to hide and bottle up the things we feel because we are either scared of what others will think, or we think we shouldn’t be feeling that way. We think that our emotions are “wrong” in some strange way that doesn’t really make sense when you ask why. We need to feel these so-called “negative” emotions, they help us grow. By letting ourselves experience them we can learn.

Remember, “Always be true to your feelings because the more you deny what you feel, the stronger it becomes.”

Time Is The Greatest Healer, But….!

Time is the greatest healer. This is a popular saying, but I believe that this is not completely correct. Time will do nothing for you if you do not use time properly.Time fills your wounds but, it is not the main motivation to move forward. After getting hurt, you have to try yourself to move forward in life.

It is not right to say that everything will be alright with time. Because time does not work with us, we move with time.When you leave the responsibility of your happiness and wounds on time, then you lose a lot. Because the purpose of time is not to give happiness or erase pain, memories or people. Rather, the purpose of time is to learn new people, new opportunities, and new experiences.Time and emotions should be controlled but they should not be stopped for long.

If you are doing everything to handle yourself but still not able to understand even after doing all this, whether you are going right with time or not. Then  notice that you are spending your day with regular routine or just trying to show that everything is fine.

I Learned that we should not get bored with regular routine. Regular routine means that everything is going well in our life. That’s why try that you should spend all your time in the way you like to spend. So that everything goes right in your life.

Look, Time heals nothing. Its what you do with that time that means everything.Try to control your time, believe it, by doing this, you will save yourself from unnecessary pain in future.

Why I ‘Smile’..

It is very important to always smile in life. Smile is the jewel of every human being, people who keep smiling not only keep themselves away from mental stress, live healthy lives, but also work to make the environment around them positive. Because smile is the most beautiful gift given by God.

Every person needs to understand that a smile is a gift that is very precious even without any value, the giver has little to offer, but the recipient is happy, whereas the greatest rich person in life would be the one Is that which wins his heart by giving others his smile.

Look, as long as we are alive, it will never happen that we will not be disappointed, will not be disturbed and trouble will never be broken on us! In the meantime, we will have a smile that will give us the courage to fight everything.

Smiling is considered to be the proof of positivity, so in every situation one should keep smiling, while the person who smiles in every situation and faces all the troubles of life easily.