Happiness in relationships

Many people associate happiness with money and many people associate it with relationships. They do not understand that they will not feel happy in their relationships as long as they are not happy themselves. Relationship problems are increasing rapidly and the main reason behind this is that we expect too much from the other person. We hope that they make us feel happy. We lie in our minds like, ‘If our partner buys us a dress, we will be happy’ or ‘If our partner is planning a surprise for us, then we will be happy’. This problem is not only with the couple but it is with each relationship whether it is a parental relationship or a sibling relationship or friendship.

Here are some facts below that can help you be happy:


Take care of yourself
Take care of yourself. Do not prioritize the other person over yourself and do not let him do the same. If you give too much priority to someone and you get nothing in return then you are preparing a recipe for your disappointment.

Get started
If you want to go somewhere, plan it yourself. Do not wait for your partner, parent or child to take you there. Let them know that they will like you if they come together. However there is no need to be disappointed if they refuse. Keep your plan going.


Give personal time
You need to give time to your partner and give your personal time to maintain a healthy relationship.

The conclusion
We set unrealistic expectations from other people in our lives and believe that if they truly love us, they will express it in the same way. This is almost certainly false. It only hurts relationships rather than doing any good. We need to understand that the only person who can make you feel really happy is yourself.

5 Books you need to read


Bhagavad Gita

I will not only call Bhagavad Gita a book, but this book is a university in itself. You will get the solution of the hard work of your life in simple language in Bhagavad Gita. In the Mahabharata, when Arjuna was unable to understand what to do, how to do it because he was in the midst of war. Then the knowledge that Lord Krishna had given to Arjuna at that time, you will get inside it. Best books to read.

The Alchemist

The Alchemist’ is the story of a Shepherd who wants to roam the world. Wants to gain the treasure of the whole world. When he finds the treasure of the world after many ups and downs, he realizes that the treasure was already with him ‘who he himself was’. The ‘Alchemist’ book teaches us how to overcome our fears, how we can hear the voice of our heart. I will speak this book for every person who thinks that my dreams can never be fulfilled. If you think so, then you must read this book. If you want to see the world from a new perspective, then you must read this book. Best books to read

Top 5 regrets of daying

This book has been written by Bronnie ware. Actually Bronnie works as a nurse in a hospital and used to take care of the patients who are taking their last breaths.During the conversation with those patients, bronnie notices that every dying person has some kind of regret in his mind.And the amazing thing is that there was no similarity in those patients, but their regrets were similar.
And she has written about the same regrets in this book.You all must read this book once so that you too can avoid that regrets.

Rich Dad Poor Dad

This book is written by ‘Robert Kiyosaki’, he has written the talk of two fathers in this book. A father who is very poor and a father who is very rich. The poor father is the author’s own father and the rich father is the father of the author’s best friend. The one who is a poor father, that is, the father of a writer, went to work in his old way ie traditional way and continued to struggle financially throughout his life. And the rich father who changed traditional ways and became richest man. Best books to read, after reading this book, you will get to know a lot of things. Towards income, finance, success. By reading this book, you will be able to understand that it is not necessary that according to the ‘Education System’ you will get success in your life, you will have money. After reading this book your perspective will change how you can earn more from your mindset. You can get even more success.

Think and grow rich

This book written by Napoleon Hill. In this book, the author has stated the Laws (Rules) of a select few successful people, who are universal, that any person can become successful in their life by following it. Best books to read. Many people followed those laws in their lives and became millionaires, successful. And let me tell you that Napoleon Hill studied more than 20 years to write this book. At that time, more than 500 people who were successful, were rich, the author studied them. He gave so much research, so much study, so much time, so think for yourself what will be the impact of this book. And what wonderful motivational things would have been written in this book. Best books to read.

Do you believe in magic?

Do you believe in magic or miracle?
Hearing these questions, some people will say yes and some people will say no. I think the people whose life is going according to them, they will say yes, and those who are unhappy, they will say No.

When you find yourself in a hopeless situation, remember that  Someone is always around you with a positive energy, that is magic. Just you need to be confident. Because you are the magic creator, you are the magician.There is a need to keep Believe on yourself. Just because things have not worked out exactly how you planned does not mean that nothing good can happen in your life.You cannot blame it on luck, maybe something good will happen. No matter what your situation is saying to you, God has not left you. Tell yourself this until you believe it.

It has been my personal experience that my biggest blessings come after the darkest storms. I know that when I am going through a rough time, I cannot lose hope. Because I knew nothing could go wrong with me, yes some things did not go according to me, but it does not mean that my happiness is not available to me.

I believe myself that there is magic, I believe that there are miracles.And I also believe that there is also a magic creator. I believe myself. We just need to look into ourselves. Whenever we are disappointed, we blame on luck, people, or circumstances. But have you ever tried to pay attention to your surroundings. Have you ever tried to feel positive energy around you? If not, then I think you should try this once. You will have faith in both your magic and your inner spirit.

We are all the creators/magicians of our life and we can also create magic in our life. There is a need to just trust yourself. Because magic can happen anytime in life.

“Let yourself feel everything you need to feel.”

In the society we live in, we are taught from childhood that which emotions are to be felt and which are not. Like, we should not cry, we should not get angry.

Unfortunately,  The more we try to run away from this emotions, the more we feel it.Try as much as you want, you cannot run away from these emotions. it follows us everywhere. Difficult emotions, like  anger, loneliness, fear,  confusion, are a natural part of the human experience. It’s just not possible to avoid feeling bad.

According to the society, we should not cry because it makes us look weak. And it is not good for us. But I feel like,
The issues come when we judge our emotions or refuse to feel them.
I truly believe that there is a place for every emotion and that it is totally ok to feel them.

It seems to me that this is a very important thing to remember in order to enjoy life. Far too often we try to hide and bottle up the things we feel because we are either scared of what others will think, or we think we shouldn’t be feeling that way. We think that our emotions are “wrong” in some strange way that doesn’t really make sense when you ask why. We need to feel these so-called “negative” emotions, they help us grow. By letting ourselves experience them we can learn.

Remember, “Always be true to your feelings because the more you deny what you feel, the stronger it becomes.”

Time Is The Greatest Healer, But….!

Time is the greatest healer. This is a popular saying, but I believe that this is not completely correct. Time will do nothing for you if you do not use time properly.Time fills your wounds but, it is not the main motivation to move forward. After getting hurt, you have to try yourself to move forward in life.

It is not right to say that everything will be alright with time. Because time does not work with us, we move with time.When you leave the responsibility of your happiness and wounds on time, then you lose a lot. Because the purpose of time is not to give happiness or erase pain, memories or people. Rather, the purpose of time is to learn new people, new opportunities, and new experiences.Time and emotions should be controlled but they should not be stopped for long.

If you are doing everything to handle yourself but still not able to understand even after doing all this, whether you are going right with time or not. Then  notice that you are spending your day with regular routine or just trying to show that everything is fine.

I Learned that we should not get bored with regular routine. Regular routine means that everything is going well in our life. That’s why try that you should spend all your time in the way you like to spend. So that everything goes right in your life.

Look, Time heals nothing. Its what you do with that time that means everything.Try to control your time, believe it, by doing this, you will save yourself from unnecessary pain in future.

Why I ‘Smile’..

It is very important to always smile in life. Smile is the jewel of every human being, people who keep smiling not only keep themselves away from mental stress, live healthy lives, but also work to make the environment around them positive. Because smile is the most beautiful gift given by God.

Every person needs to understand that a smile is a gift that is very precious even without any value, the giver has little to offer, but the recipient is happy, whereas the greatest rich person in life would be the one Is that which wins his heart by giving others his smile.

Look, as long as we are alive, it will never happen that we will not be disappointed, will not be disturbed and trouble will never be broken on us! In the meantime, we will have a smile that will give us the courage to fight everything.

Smiling is considered to be the proof of positivity, so in every situation one should keep smiling, while the person who smiles in every situation and faces all the troubles of life easily.

Nothing But the Truth..

There are two aspects of the truth, one that we want to see and one that we do not want to accept, but in reality that is the truth.

Throughout the life, we run from the reality, and by showing that artificial truth, we try to make ourselves appear true. And that is probably the biggest mistake in your life.Because by doing this you can only claim to be happy, or pretend to be happy but you cannot be happy.

We all have only one life, in that too you will spend worrying about others or thinking about others, then when will you live for yourself.

The biggest truth is that you are stopping your growth yourself. Then, whether it is about life or about relationships, you are unknowingly becoming your own enemy.The sooner you accept the truth, the sooner you will be able to move forward in life.And the longer you run from the truth, the longer it will take you to move forward in life.

Yes, I believe sometimes it is not so easy to accept reality and move on.
And see nothing is easy. Our heart is like the river water, which should always flow.And if it is stuck in someone, then it becomes difficult to get rid of it. But not impossible, because nothing is impossible.

Nothing but the truth is, Life is too short,  so love the people who treat you right, forget about the one who don’t, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

Perspectives

Perspectives is a very big thing. Everyone’s thinking, seeing, understanding perspective is different. If the same thing is seen or thought in many ways, then many questions and answers can be found.And many complaints and misunderstandings can be overcome.

Whatever the person thinks, the world looks the same.Some people always dream of moving forward looking at problems and some people see opportunity everywhere.Things appear according to your thinking and it happens the same…

Perspective makes a huge difference on our success.If the outlook is negative, then you will still be troubled despite everything you have. Remember, it is many times easier than trying unsuccessfully to change everyone in the world, change yourself ..

Make a habit of finding happiness .. Try to find opportunities in troubles… because sitting by holding your head will not achieve anything ..

We can be sad even after getting everything or we can be happy even if we do not get anything. This is the perspective of looking at our lives.

Look, the perspective is always as limited as we think. So try to expand your thinking, if you can expand your knowledge, then somewhere else, the perspective of our life will also get bigger.


In every situation, there are two aspects of the situation, there are two views. One is negative and the other is positive. When we look at things from a negative perspective, we simply remain upset, depressed, remain unhappy, can harm ourselves or others, spoil our relationships with others and do not attempt to get out of that situation.

Whereas on seeing things by being positive one,finds the reason for every trouble.From every problem, difficulties and troubles find a way out.

Therefore it is better to be upset by being negative, to be unhappy, to be happy by being positive and try to get out of those situations, from difficulties, from troubles.

Things remain the same, we can change our circumstances with our perspective.





Every moment is a fresh beginning.

Every moment is a new beginning. I think strength is always in the present moment. You never stop, Our own mind changes here and at this moment. It does not matter how long we have been immersed in negative thoughts or a bad relationship or financial crisis or self-reproach. We can start making changes in it today.

Don’t you think it depends on yourself whether you are happy or unhappy.
I think that, if we want we can be happy and if we want we can also be sad. It all depends on what we want or do not want.No matter how big or bad a situation is, a new start can change everything.And I can say this with such confidence, because I have seen this by following myself.

Why think about things which are not in our hands or which we cannot change. There are so many things around us that we can think about, and we can be happy too. Now there will be people who can say that, it is good to say all this, but it is equally difficult to start or think about new beginning.

Definitely it is not always easy to capture your thoughts, because they grow very fast. Nevertheless, we can start to listen and listen to our words from now on. If you hear yourself some kind of negative words then stop in the middle. Either change the sentence or just leave it. Now if you choose those thoughts that cause problems and suffering then it is foolishness. It is like this, as if you always choose the food that makes you sick. We can do this once or twice, but as soon as we know which foods are harmful to our body, we stay away from them. It is the same with thoughts. Let us stay away from thoughts that cause problems and suffering.

Our mind decides our future. When something happens in our present, which is undesirable, we should use our mind to change that situation. And we can start changing it right away.

If you are also struggling with such a situation, then leave those things and start a fresh beginning from this moment.

Can you learn to love? …

Keep your heart safe, it is very sensitive. Some small things and incidents leave a deep impact on it.

When a child is born, it does not need to teach him love. He can feel the feelings that his mother has for him.

In the same way no one needs to learn love, just need to understand what love is. And Whoever understood what love is, he learns to love.

We have often seen that some people are confused with the words love and affection, because they do not understand what is the difference between the two, and due to this confusion they often  takes both emotions in the wrong place. Which is wrong.

What is love?

Love is a set of emotions that we experience. Love can also mean trust or behavior that shows your affection for someone. Love is a feeling that everyone cherishes. It makes them feel happy and important.
Love can be for many things, family, partners, pets, nature, and even for oneself. Honesty, care, and trust accompany love. As humans, we depend on one and other, and though we may be different, love binds us all together and making the world a much better place.

It has often been seen that people do not understand the difference between love and Affection

Love and Affection are two separable feelings.  The main difference between love and affection is that love is deeper and stronger than affection. If we love someone, we’ll feel affection for that person, but we don’t love everyone we feel affection for.

Love is always associated with positive feelings like caring, warmth, and happiness.

Affection is a gentle feeling of fondness, caring or liking. It is a moderate feeling or emotion compared to love. Unlike love, affection does not consist of passionate or romantic feelings. Yet, affection makes you feel safe and cared for. 

In affection you never want to see the front person unhappy whereas in love you never want to see your loved one away.