A soulmate

This generation is making it so hard to find someone to actually build with.
Soulmate means the highest level of friendship. The interesting thing is that we want a soulmate like, who support us where we are week. But the deficiencies that are in us should not be in them. Actually we want them according to our convenience. We can not say it’s a soulmate.

Soulmate is who understands us, how we feel, he /she does not have to say this without saying what he/she understands he is a soulmate.
A very beautiful feeling.

I think any person in your life who has become the inspiration of any change in you, he/she is your soulmate.

It’s not at all that, emotional challenges do not come in your relationship, but in spite of the ups and down of life and in spite of innumerable shortcomings with which your soul is connected  it is your soulmate in the right way.

Nowdays people say that they are not able to maintain the relationship, but they do not understand that in order to maintain the relationship, first they have to build like that.

Every relationship will get boaring after you have been together for years. Love isn’t a feeling it’s commitment to love everyday physically and emotionally.  it’s difficult, it’s not always laugh, smiles and fun. people tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else, because the spark is gone. No, that’s not how it works. you want somebody to never give up on you, and love you unconditionally. then do the same. Be the change. this isn’t the movie. Love someone when you don’t want to. when they aren’t the easiest to deal with. when they are hard to love, its called a “Real Soulmate.”

Note to self

We can never change the work done in our past, but we get to see the result of those works in our present.
And our every present day, tomorrow becomes our past.

And we are very lucky that everyday we get our new today. So try whatever you do today, do good for yourself and others because tomorrow it will become past again and we will not be able to change anything.

So make it a great day.😊

Happiness in relationships

Many people associate happiness with money and many people associate it with relationships. They do not understand that they will not feel happy in their relationships as long as they are not happy themselves. Relationship problems are increasing rapidly and the main reason behind this is that we expect too much from the other person. We hope that they make us feel happy. We lie in our minds like, ‘If our partner buys us a dress, we will be happy’ or ‘If our partner is planning a surprise for us, then we will be happy’. This problem is not only with the couple but it is with each relationship whether it is a parental relationship or a sibling relationship or friendship.

Here are some facts below that can help you be happy:


Take care of yourself
Take care of yourself. Do not prioritize the other person over yourself and do not let him do the same. If you give too much priority to someone and you get nothing in return then you are preparing a recipe for your disappointment.

Get started
If you want to go somewhere, plan it yourself. Do not wait for your partner, parent or child to take you there. Let them know that they will like you if they come together. However there is no need to be disappointed if they refuse. Keep your plan going.


Give personal time
You need to give time to your partner and give your personal time to maintain a healthy relationship.

The conclusion
We set unrealistic expectations from other people in our lives and believe that if they truly love us, they will express it in the same way. This is almost certainly false. It only hurts relationships rather than doing any good. We need to understand that the only person who can make you feel really happy is yourself.

Found something true..

A human being can learn anything at any time. And unknowingly something new I have learned today.

Today After a long vacation, I sat down to write something, But perhaps it was happening for the first time that despite having so many things in mind, I was not able to write anything. So many questions, so many answers to those questions, lots of thinking and memories, and some untold things, Everything was going on in the mind, but still there was nothing to write.

I Was thinking something like this while sitting, then the phone rang, I picked up the phone and saw that a friend’s massage had come.By the way, I have very few friends with whom I talk, but she is a bit special, because she  also like to read and write like me. Seeing her massage, I asked her how much I am trying. I want to write so much but I am not able to write anything. She said dont worry,  it happens sometimes.

I said, it would have happened, but I used to write with such passion that it is not that my writing is over now. I felt sad, because this was the thing that used to make me happy, but now I am not able to do that either.

Then she said, maybe you are in “Writer’s block” condition, I felt a bit strange to hear, so I asked her what are these “Writer’s blocks”. Then explained to me that, this is a condition where The person who writes, that person cannot write for some time or his ability to write is reduced. and this is called “Writer’s block.”

This was the first time I heard that something like this happens, after talking to her, I searched Google and got information about many such conditions.

Then I realized how many conditions we have for humans, there are  some feelings and situation according to our every mood. If seen, human lives are very intersting, but if we want then only we can make it as much intersting. If we want, we can make 365 days of the year the best days of our lives. But if we try …

I got the solution of my writing block, but just think what mood you are in and how much intersting you can make it. Just try to be happy, the reason will be found automatically.

5 Books you need to read


Bhagavad Gita

I will not only call Bhagavad Gita a book, but this book is a university in itself. You will get the solution of the hard work of your life in simple language in Bhagavad Gita. In the Mahabharata, when Arjuna was unable to understand what to do, how to do it because he was in the midst of war. Then the knowledge that Lord Krishna had given to Arjuna at that time, you will get inside it. Best books to read.

The Alchemist

The Alchemist’ is the story of a Shepherd who wants to roam the world. Wants to gain the treasure of the whole world. When he finds the treasure of the world after many ups and downs, he realizes that the treasure was already with him ‘who he himself was’. The ‘Alchemist’ book teaches us how to overcome our fears, how we can hear the voice of our heart. I will speak this book for every person who thinks that my dreams can never be fulfilled. If you think so, then you must read this book. If you want to see the world from a new perspective, then you must read this book. Best books to read

Top 5 regrets of daying

This book has been written by Bronnie ware. Actually Bronnie works as a nurse in a hospital and used to take care of the patients who are taking their last breaths.During the conversation with those patients, bronnie notices that every dying person has some kind of regret in his mind.And the amazing thing is that there was no similarity in those patients, but their regrets were similar.
And she has written about the same regrets in this book.You all must read this book once so that you too can avoid that regrets.

Rich Dad Poor Dad

This book is written by ‘Robert Kiyosaki’, he has written the talk of two fathers in this book. A father who is very poor and a father who is very rich. The poor father is the author’s own father and the rich father is the father of the author’s best friend. The one who is a poor father, that is, the father of a writer, went to work in his old way ie traditional way and continued to struggle financially throughout his life. And the rich father who changed traditional ways and became richest man. Best books to read, after reading this book, you will get to know a lot of things. Towards income, finance, success. By reading this book, you will be able to understand that it is not necessary that according to the ‘Education System’ you will get success in your life, you will have money. After reading this book your perspective will change how you can earn more from your mindset. You can get even more success.

Think and grow rich

This book written by Napoleon Hill. In this book, the author has stated the Laws (Rules) of a select few successful people, who are universal, that any person can become successful in their life by following it. Best books to read. Many people followed those laws in their lives and became millionaires, successful. And let me tell you that Napoleon Hill studied more than 20 years to write this book. At that time, more than 500 people who were successful, were rich, the author studied them. He gave so much research, so much study, so much time, so think for yourself what will be the impact of this book. And what wonderful motivational things would have been written in this book. Best books to read.

“Let yourself feel everything you need to feel.”

In the society we live in, we are taught from childhood that which emotions are to be felt and which are not. Like, we should not cry, we should not get angry.

Unfortunately,  The more we try to run away from this emotions, the more we feel it.Try as much as you want, you cannot run away from these emotions. it follows us everywhere. Difficult emotions, like  anger, loneliness, fear,  confusion, are a natural part of the human experience. It’s just not possible to avoid feeling bad.

According to the society, we should not cry because it makes us look weak. And it is not good for us. But I feel like,
The issues come when we judge our emotions or refuse to feel them.
I truly believe that there is a place for every emotion and that it is totally ok to feel them.

It seems to me that this is a very important thing to remember in order to enjoy life. Far too often we try to hide and bottle up the things we feel because we are either scared of what others will think, or we think we shouldn’t be feeling that way. We think that our emotions are “wrong” in some strange way that doesn’t really make sense when you ask why. We need to feel these so-called “negative” emotions, they help us grow. By letting ourselves experience them we can learn.

Remember, “Always be true to your feelings because the more you deny what you feel, the stronger it becomes.”

Why I ‘Smile’..

It is very important to always smile in life. Smile is the jewel of every human being, people who keep smiling not only keep themselves away from mental stress, live healthy lives, but also work to make the environment around them positive. Because smile is the most beautiful gift given by God.

Every person needs to understand that a smile is a gift that is very precious even without any value, the giver has little to offer, but the recipient is happy, whereas the greatest rich person in life would be the one Is that which wins his heart by giving others his smile.

Look, as long as we are alive, it will never happen that we will not be disappointed, will not be disturbed and trouble will never be broken on us! In the meantime, we will have a smile that will give us the courage to fight everything.

Smiling is considered to be the proof of positivity, so in every situation one should keep smiling, while the person who smiles in every situation and faces all the troubles of life easily.

Nothing But the Truth..

There are two aspects of the truth, one that we want to see and one that we do not want to accept, but in reality that is the truth.

Throughout the life, we run from the reality, and by showing that artificial truth, we try to make ourselves appear true. And that is probably the biggest mistake in your life.Because by doing this you can only claim to be happy, or pretend to be happy but you cannot be happy.

We all have only one life, in that too you will spend worrying about others or thinking about others, then when will you live for yourself.

The biggest truth is that you are stopping your growth yourself. Then, whether it is about life or about relationships, you are unknowingly becoming your own enemy.The sooner you accept the truth, the sooner you will be able to move forward in life.And the longer you run from the truth, the longer it will take you to move forward in life.

Yes, I believe sometimes it is not so easy to accept reality and move on.
And see nothing is easy. Our heart is like the river water, which should always flow.And if it is stuck in someone, then it becomes difficult to get rid of it. But not impossible, because nothing is impossible.

Nothing but the truth is, Life is too short,  so love the people who treat you right, forget about the one who don’t, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.