Happiness in relationships

Many people associate happiness with money and many people associate it with relationships. They do not understand that they will not feel happy in their relationships as long as they are not happy themselves. Relationship problems are increasing rapidly and the main reason behind this is that we expect too much from the other person. We hope that they make us feel happy. We lie in our minds like, ‘If our partner buys us a dress, we will be happy’ or ‘If our partner is planning a surprise for us, then we will be happy’. This problem is not only with the couple but it is with each relationship whether it is a parental relationship or a sibling relationship or friendship.

Here are some facts below that can help you be happy:


Take care of yourself
Take care of yourself. Do not prioritize the other person over yourself and do not let him do the same. If you give too much priority to someone and you get nothing in return then you are preparing a recipe for your disappointment.

Get started
If you want to go somewhere, plan it yourself. Do not wait for your partner, parent or child to take you there. Let them know that they will like you if they come together. However there is no need to be disappointed if they refuse. Keep your plan going.


Give personal time
You need to give time to your partner and give your personal time to maintain a healthy relationship.

The conclusion
We set unrealistic expectations from other people in our lives and believe that if they truly love us, they will express it in the same way. This is almost certainly false. It only hurts relationships rather than doing any good. We need to understand that the only person who can make you feel really happy is yourself.

Found something true..

A human being can learn anything at any time. And unknowingly something new I have learned today.

Today After a long vacation, I sat down to write something, But perhaps it was happening for the first time that despite having so many things in mind, I was not able to write anything. So many questions, so many answers to those questions, lots of thinking and memories, and some untold things, Everything was going on in the mind, but still there was nothing to write.

I Was thinking something like this while sitting, then the phone rang, I picked up the phone and saw that a friend’s massage had come.By the way, I have very few friends with whom I talk, but she is a bit special, because she  also like to read and write like me. Seeing her massage, I asked her how much I am trying. I want to write so much but I am not able to write anything. She said dont worry,  it happens sometimes.

I said, it would have happened, but I used to write with such passion that it is not that my writing is over now. I felt sad, because this was the thing that used to make me happy, but now I am not able to do that either.

Then she said, maybe you are in “Writer’s block” condition, I felt a bit strange to hear, so I asked her what are these “Writer’s blocks”. Then explained to me that, this is a condition where The person who writes, that person cannot write for some time or his ability to write is reduced. and this is called “Writer’s block.”

This was the first time I heard that something like this happens, after talking to her, I searched Google and got information about many such conditions.

Then I realized how many conditions we have for humans, there are  some feelings and situation according to our every mood. If seen, human lives are very intersting, but if we want then only we can make it as much intersting. If we want, we can make 365 days of the year the best days of our lives. But if we try …

I got the solution of my writing block, but just think what mood you are in and how much intersting you can make it. Just try to be happy, the reason will be found automatically.

5 Books you need to read


Bhagavad Gita

I will not only call Bhagavad Gita a book, but this book is a university in itself. You will get the solution of the hard work of your life in simple language in Bhagavad Gita. In the Mahabharata, when Arjuna was unable to understand what to do, how to do it because he was in the midst of war. Then the knowledge that Lord Krishna had given to Arjuna at that time, you will get inside it. Best books to read.

The Alchemist

The Alchemist’ is the story of a Shepherd who wants to roam the world. Wants to gain the treasure of the whole world. When he finds the treasure of the world after many ups and downs, he realizes that the treasure was already with him ‘who he himself was’. The ‘Alchemist’ book teaches us how to overcome our fears, how we can hear the voice of our heart. I will speak this book for every person who thinks that my dreams can never be fulfilled. If you think so, then you must read this book. If you want to see the world from a new perspective, then you must read this book. Best books to read

Top 5 regrets of daying

This book has been written by Bronnie ware. Actually Bronnie works as a nurse in a hospital and used to take care of the patients who are taking their last breaths.During the conversation with those patients, bronnie notices that every dying person has some kind of regret in his mind.And the amazing thing is that there was no similarity in those patients, but their regrets were similar.
And she has written about the same regrets in this book.You all must read this book once so that you too can avoid that regrets.

Rich Dad Poor Dad

This book is written by ‘Robert Kiyosaki’, he has written the talk of two fathers in this book. A father who is very poor and a father who is very rich. The poor father is the author’s own father and the rich father is the father of the author’s best friend. The one who is a poor father, that is, the father of a writer, went to work in his old way ie traditional way and continued to struggle financially throughout his life. And the rich father who changed traditional ways and became richest man. Best books to read, after reading this book, you will get to know a lot of things. Towards income, finance, success. By reading this book, you will be able to understand that it is not necessary that according to the ‘Education System’ you will get success in your life, you will have money. After reading this book your perspective will change how you can earn more from your mindset. You can get even more success.

Think and grow rich

This book written by Napoleon Hill. In this book, the author has stated the Laws (Rules) of a select few successful people, who are universal, that any person can become successful in their life by following it. Best books to read. Many people followed those laws in their lives and became millionaires, successful. And let me tell you that Napoleon Hill studied more than 20 years to write this book. At that time, more than 500 people who were successful, were rich, the author studied them. He gave so much research, so much study, so much time, so think for yourself what will be the impact of this book. And what wonderful motivational things would have been written in this book. Best books to read.

“Let yourself feel everything you need to feel.”

In the society we live in, we are taught from childhood that which emotions are to be felt and which are not. Like, we should not cry, we should not get angry.

Unfortunately,  The more we try to run away from this emotions, the more we feel it.Try as much as you want, you cannot run away from these emotions. it follows us everywhere. Difficult emotions, like  anger, loneliness, fear,  confusion, are a natural part of the human experience. It’s just not possible to avoid feeling bad.

According to the society, we should not cry because it makes us look weak. And it is not good for us. But I feel like,
The issues come when we judge our emotions or refuse to feel them.
I truly believe that there is a place for every emotion and that it is totally ok to feel them.

It seems to me that this is a very important thing to remember in order to enjoy life. Far too often we try to hide and bottle up the things we feel because we are either scared of what others will think, or we think we shouldn’t be feeling that way. We think that our emotions are “wrong” in some strange way that doesn’t really make sense when you ask why. We need to feel these so-called “negative” emotions, they help us grow. By letting ourselves experience them we can learn.

Remember, “Always be true to your feelings because the more you deny what you feel, the stronger it becomes.”

Why I ‘Smile’..

It is very important to always smile in life. Smile is the jewel of every human being, people who keep smiling not only keep themselves away from mental stress, live healthy lives, but also work to make the environment around them positive. Because smile is the most beautiful gift given by God.

Every person needs to understand that a smile is a gift that is very precious even without any value, the giver has little to offer, but the recipient is happy, whereas the greatest rich person in life would be the one Is that which wins his heart by giving others his smile.

Look, as long as we are alive, it will never happen that we will not be disappointed, will not be disturbed and trouble will never be broken on us! In the meantime, we will have a smile that will give us the courage to fight everything.

Smiling is considered to be the proof of positivity, so in every situation one should keep smiling, while the person who smiles in every situation and faces all the troubles of life easily.

Nothing But the Truth..

There are two aspects of the truth, one that we want to see and one that we do not want to accept, but in reality that is the truth.

Throughout the life, we run from the reality, and by showing that artificial truth, we try to make ourselves appear true. And that is probably the biggest mistake in your life.Because by doing this you can only claim to be happy, or pretend to be happy but you cannot be happy.

We all have only one life, in that too you will spend worrying about others or thinking about others, then when will you live for yourself.

The biggest truth is that you are stopping your growth yourself. Then, whether it is about life or about relationships, you are unknowingly becoming your own enemy.The sooner you accept the truth, the sooner you will be able to move forward in life.And the longer you run from the truth, the longer it will take you to move forward in life.

Yes, I believe sometimes it is not so easy to accept reality and move on.
And see nothing is easy. Our heart is like the river water, which should always flow.And if it is stuck in someone, then it becomes difficult to get rid of it. But not impossible, because nothing is impossible.

Nothing but the truth is, Life is too short,  so love the people who treat you right, forget about the one who don’t, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it.

Perspectives

Perspectives is a very big thing. Everyone’s thinking, seeing, understanding perspective is different. If the same thing is seen or thought in many ways, then many questions and answers can be found.And many complaints and misunderstandings can be overcome.

Whatever the person thinks, the world looks the same.Some people always dream of moving forward looking at problems and some people see opportunity everywhere.Things appear according to your thinking and it happens the same…

Perspective makes a huge difference on our success.If the outlook is negative, then you will still be troubled despite everything you have. Remember, it is many times easier than trying unsuccessfully to change everyone in the world, change yourself ..

Make a habit of finding happiness .. Try to find opportunities in troubles… because sitting by holding your head will not achieve anything ..

We can be sad even after getting everything or we can be happy even if we do not get anything. This is the perspective of looking at our lives.

Look, the perspective is always as limited as we think. So try to expand your thinking, if you can expand your knowledge, then somewhere else, the perspective of our life will also get bigger.


In every situation, there are two aspects of the situation, there are two views. One is negative and the other is positive. When we look at things from a negative perspective, we simply remain upset, depressed, remain unhappy, can harm ourselves or others, spoil our relationships with others and do not attempt to get out of that situation.

Whereas on seeing things by being positive one,finds the reason for every trouble.From every problem, difficulties and troubles find a way out.

Therefore it is better to be upset by being negative, to be unhappy, to be happy by being positive and try to get out of those situations, from difficulties, from troubles.

Things remain the same, we can change our circumstances with our perspective.





Another Chapter – 2021


The new year brings with it new hopes, new goals, new promises, new dreams. People make some new promises to themselves and try to fulfill those promises in the coming year. It is believed that if the first day of the new year is spent well and happily, then the whole year will be passed happily.

Those who had a good year passed wishing that they continue to have such happiness in the coming year. Those who had bad or painful years in the past year wish for a better life than the previous year in the coming year from God.

The true meaning of this is that on this day everyone thinks of starting a new one with a new thought. This is the time when we find solutions to problems. This is the time when we think of something good and see a new goal for our success.

If you also have some goals and tasks that have not been done in the year behind, and if you want to complete them in the coming year, then make a resolution for the coming New Year. If you set a New Year resolution then only you will be able to meet all the goals in the new year

I want to convey my best wishes to all of you at the beginning of this new year and want to say that all of you may have a lot of happiness, success with good health and you all progress.

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A Look Back – 2020

31st December 2020, will mark a change for all of us. It will symbolize the leaving behind of 2020 and entering a New Year which will hopefully be better. No one knows when the pandemic will end, but everyone feels like entering 2021 will be like turning a new page.

Ends are not bad things, they just mean that something else is about to begin. And there are many things that don’t really end, anyway, they just begin again in a new way.

On seeing the whole year has come to an end. The last day of the year has come and looking back, it has left a lot of memories.

This whole year has taught a lot. In this year someone has lost something and someone has gained something.
We have spent the whole year fighting, laughing, crying. We will try to make the coming year the same or better.

Leave behind what is wrong, what is bad. Go ahead with what is right, what is good.


There is nothing to say, just want to tell,
Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365-page book. Write a good one.

It all started when I accidentally picked up the wrong Luggage at the Station.

Last week has been very bad for me, because I have left my friends and have come to live in my hometown. A little crying program was also done between friends and me. 😁

Because now all of us were going to move forward in our life, and our Bachelor days were over.But in all this, a very good story has happened, and that’s why this little memory will also be there for me.

Actually I was waiting for my train at the station with my 2 very closed friends. I was already upset due to being away from my best friend, Train was also preponed in that, so had to come to the station early. I proceeded towards the platform to catch my train by saying good bye to my friends, At the same time, I heard an announcement that my train which was going to come on platform 1 is on platform 2.

I had a lot of luggages, and to go up to platform 2. I had to go up the stairs, Which was very difficult for me. But I did not have much time, because my train had arrived.

I quickly took my luggage in both hands, and quickly started moving towards the platform. So far, I had climbed only 4 steps that my breath started blooming. I started sweating and I was very tired. Because my Luggages were too heavy. 2 boys asked me to help, but because I felt like that stray boy, I refused. I was still climbing the sixth staircase, that I heard some voices, I saw 3 boys standing behind me with their belongings and one of them was climbing up and coming towards me. As soon as he came close to me he said, luggages are very full, if you want, can I help you.

I looked at him, the boy was looking quite decent, and the way of talking seemed good. He said, do not be afraid, I will not run away with your luggage, you can come with me.

And I said yes,😉

he picked up my bag and we quickly moved up to the platform. As I moved forward, my attention went to my bag, which the boy was trying to help me while he was up. That bag was not mine at all. I told him, wait…., it is not my bag. The boy smiled and said, You quickly realized that this is not your bag, For that time I felt like I messed up again, and I lost my luggage. But looking at my face, he said, hey sorry, kidding, don’t take tension, your luggeges are bringing my friend from behind, And I saw 2 boys coming down the stairs with some luggage and my bag, then my tension went down.

Before I asked him anything, he said that when the announcement was made of train, you had taken my luggage in a hurry, and before I called you, you had gone too far. That’s why I took your luggage and followed you. Because you also had my luggage.😇

I got laughed at my stupidness and also angry. Because I always make some mistake. And before I say thank to him, he  said that the train will be missed, let’s hurry. As soon as I moved towards the train, he said, I am in the S3, which Coach are you in? I said S9. He said, it is far enough now, may I help you to go to coach S9 I said oh no no, I will go, thanks for asking, and both of us proceed to go towards our seats. I reached my compartment, put my luggages, and sat comfortably on my bearth. It was 11 o’clock, I informed my mother by calling.

Right now I was just starting to enjoy my journey that a voice came from the lower berth, that someone wants to exchange seats from the S3 compartment. And as soon as I heard the name S3, I remembered about that boy. The person who helped me also had compartment S3. I was thinking about that boy, what a good boy he was, instead of scolding me he helped me so much.

Some stories are like this, we have nothing to do with us, but whenever we remember, we start smiling.

Thinking like this, I did not know when I slept, suddenly my eyes opened at midnight. The boy who was sleeping on the bearth in front of mine was snoring loudly, This is why I lost sleep. I tried to get him up from sleep, but I could not, finally I got up and sat down. At the same time, I got a voice from the lower berth, ‘Excuse me’, will you make a little less voice, we are not able to sleep. Hearing this voice, I felt that I knew him, but how, I tried to see but I could not see.  But now the snoring had stopped, that’s why I bowed down and said thank you.  Voice came again from below, ‘Always welcome dear’.

Oh my god… I remembered,😀
it was the voice of the same boy,😅

Hey, have you forgotten, the same boy, Compartment S3.😉

I came to know later that someone who had to exchange seats in the compartment of S3, this boy had helped him.

Don’t know why, but there was a different happiness. Because, looking at it, the day was very bad, My mood was not good, I was upset. The train was preponed, I had heavy luggages, platform numbers were changed.

But in spite of all this, I got this boy for my help. Who saved me from losing my luggages, helped me to bring my all bags to the platform. And, how can I forget snoring, 😂which My sleep was disturbed due to this.😬

Don’t know, but that boy had a very positive vibes, which made my mood completely fit.

And so far so good..  Yes, It all started when I accidentally picked up the wrong Luggage at the Station.😄