A soulmate

This generation is making it so hard to find someone to actually build with.
Soulmate means the highest level of friendship. The interesting thing is that we want a soulmate like, who support us where we are week. But the deficiencies that are in us should not be in them. Actually we want them according to our convenience. We can not say it’s a soulmate.

Soulmate is who understands us, how we feel, he /she does not have to say this without saying what he/she understands he is a soulmate.
A very beautiful feeling.

I think any person in your life who has become the inspiration of any change in you, he/she is your soulmate.

It’s not at all that, emotional challenges do not come in your relationship, but in spite of the ups and down of life and in spite of innumerable shortcomings with which your soul is connected  it is your soulmate in the right way.

Nowdays people say that they are not able to maintain the relationship, but they do not understand that in order to maintain the relationship, first they have to build like that.

Every relationship will get boaring after you have been together for years. Love isn’t a feeling it’s commitment to love everyday physically and emotionally.  it’s difficult, it’s not always laugh, smiles and fun. people tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else, because the spark is gone. No, that’s not how it works. you want somebody to never give up on you, and love you unconditionally. then do the same. Be the change. this isn’t the movie. Love someone when you don’t want to. when they aren’t the easiest to deal with. when they are hard to love, its called a “Real Soulmate.”

Happiness in relationships

Many people associate happiness with money and many people associate it with relationships. They do not understand that they will not feel happy in their relationships as long as they are not happy themselves. Relationship problems are increasing rapidly and the main reason behind this is that we expect too much from the other person. We hope that they make us feel happy. We lie in our minds like, ‘If our partner buys us a dress, we will be happy’ or ‘If our partner is planning a surprise for us, then we will be happy’. This problem is not only with the couple but it is with each relationship whether it is a parental relationship or a sibling relationship or friendship.

Here are some facts below that can help you be happy:


Take care of yourself
Take care of yourself. Do not prioritize the other person over yourself and do not let him do the same. If you give too much priority to someone and you get nothing in return then you are preparing a recipe for your disappointment.

Get started
If you want to go somewhere, plan it yourself. Do not wait for your partner, parent or child to take you there. Let them know that they will like you if they come together. However there is no need to be disappointed if they refuse. Keep your plan going.


Give personal time
You need to give time to your partner and give your personal time to maintain a healthy relationship.

The conclusion
We set unrealistic expectations from other people in our lives and believe that if they truly love us, they will express it in the same way. This is almost certainly false. It only hurts relationships rather than doing any good. We need to understand that the only person who can make you feel really happy is yourself.

My non-biological sibling


Year 2017, Pune.

I was about to go out of some important work, then Kiran (my flatmate) gave a voice saying, hey lakshmi, ‘I have a friend who has a very good friend coming to Pune and needs a place to stay’, can I call her to stay at our flat? I said ‘yes of course, no problem’, and I went out in a hurry.

When I came back I saw a small height,  chubby girl sitting on the bed, Giving me the introduction, Kiran said, ‘this is the girl I told you about’, And then she extended her hand and said, ‘Hi My name is Geetanjali’. I too moved my hand and said, your name is very beautiful, and she smiled.

We had our first meeting just like this, and then, this chubby girl with a small height became a geet for me from Gitanjali, and I became Lakshu for her from Lakshmi. From since then, we have shared passwords, shared food, shared laughter, shared tears, shared memories, shared dreams, shared heartbreaks and screen shot. There was nothing left that we did not share. So basically she is not just my best friend, she is my non biological sister. If I have earned anything in the last few years, then she is this girl. I am 26 years old, this is the most precious thing in my life that I have earned, And  I never want to lose it.

By the way, every time, I have shown her how important she is to me. And she also knows this very well. So the thing is that now that day has also come, for which I was very happy, but even more sad to lose, that is my bestie’s wedding.

If seen in the same way, Indirectly this meant that, the right that I had on her would be taken away from me. Or you can also say that the part that came in my life, I also have to give that part to someone else. It was not that I did not lose anything before, but if I lose her too, then I will have nothing left. But it was decided. And the thing was about my bestie’s happiness, I too was happily prepared.

On the one hand I was very happy that my bestie has found a partner with whom she will move forward in her life and be happy And from the other side also sad that now our relationship will probably not be the same.

But Now I had to explain to myself that these are all right, because I too had left her in a city where we have a lot of memories.

Now the problem is that I had come home, And I have a phone anxiety, so I cannot talk more, though both of us did not need it because we can talk a lot  in silence. But she also understood my weakness that I could not talk, so perhaps I never had to say anything to her. She never judged me like other friends, why I do not call, or why she always has to call.

This girl has always faced every good, bad thing in me. And maybe these are the little things that keep us together.

25 Jan 2021.

Today is your engagement, such a big day of your life and I am very sad that I am not with you.This is probably the first time that I am not with you.
But frankly, no one can be more happy for you than me.

I know you understand my feelings,
But I feel very bad, and because I cannot speak, I had no option but to write to say sorry.

I wish that you always be happy, because the happiness of many people is associated with your happiness. Take my share of happiness if you need it, but always be happy.

I m really sorry geet And a big Congratulations.