A soulmate

This generation is making it so hard to find someone to actually build with.
Soulmate means the highest level of friendship. The interesting thing is that we want a soulmate like, who support us where we are week. But the deficiencies that are in us should not be in them. Actually we want them according to our convenience. We can not say it’s a soulmate.

Soulmate is who understands us, how we feel, he /she does not have to say this without saying what he/she understands he is a soulmate.
A very beautiful feeling.

I think any person in your life who has become the inspiration of any change in you, he/she is your soulmate.

It’s not at all that, emotional challenges do not come in your relationship, but in spite of the ups and down of life and in spite of innumerable shortcomings with which your soul is connected  it is your soulmate in the right way.

Nowdays people say that they are not able to maintain the relationship, but they do not understand that in order to maintain the relationship, first they have to build like that.

Every relationship will get boaring after you have been together for years. Love isn’t a feeling it’s commitment to love everyday physically and emotionally.  it’s difficult, it’s not always laugh, smiles and fun. people tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else, because the spark is gone. No, that’s not how it works. you want somebody to never give up on you, and love you unconditionally. then do the same. Be the change. this isn’t the movie. Love someone when you don’t want to. when they aren’t the easiest to deal with. when they are hard to love, its called a “Real Soulmate.”


Perspectives is a very big thing. Everyone’s thinking, seeing, understanding perspective is different. If the same thing is seen or thought in many ways, then many questions and answers can be found.And many complaints and misunderstandings can be overcome.

Whatever the person thinks, the world looks the same.Some people always dream of moving forward looking at problems and some people see opportunity everywhere.Things appear according to your thinking and it happens the same…

Perspective makes a huge difference on our success.If the outlook is negative, then you will still be troubled despite everything you have. Remember, it is many times easier than trying unsuccessfully to change everyone in the world, change yourself ..

Make a habit of finding happiness .. Try to find opportunities in troubles… because sitting by holding your head will not achieve anything ..

We can be sad even after getting everything or we can be happy even if we do not get anything. This is the perspective of looking at our lives.

Look, the perspective is always as limited as we think. So try to expand your thinking, if you can expand your knowledge, then somewhere else, the perspective of our life will also get bigger.

In every situation, there are two aspects of the situation, there are two views. One is negative and the other is positive. When we look at things from a negative perspective, we simply remain upset, depressed, remain unhappy, can harm ourselves or others, spoil our relationships with others and do not attempt to get out of that situation.

Whereas on seeing things by being positive one,finds the reason for every trouble.From every problem, difficulties and troubles find a way out.

Therefore it is better to be upset by being negative, to be unhappy, to be happy by being positive and try to get out of those situations, from difficulties, from troubles.

Things remain the same, we can change our circumstances with our perspective.

Thank you note to my Roomies.

Yes I know I could say thank you myself, but maybe by writing I will be able to share my feelings better.

I do not know whether I am good or my roomies/friend, but the relationship we have is the best.

Thank you so much for making me be an important part of your life.
I am very sad to get away from you, but I have so many memories that will make me happy forever.

Thank you for always encouraging me and supporting me from little to big life decisions.

Thank you for making food for me when I’m hungry whether its 12.00 PM or 12.00 AM.

Thank you for tolerating to me when I am totally being annoying.

Those birthday surpises of you, which I can never forget. Thanks for that too.

How can I forget, when I fell ill, you all kept awake throughout the night and looked after me.

If I want to say, I have a list of things for which I have to say thanks. But I do not want to repay the debt by saying thanks. I want this loan for a lifetime, which I never want to repay.

I always thought making lifelong friends was not that easy when you’re old, but here you guyes are comes, proving me wrong. You guys have become my family, not just my best friends.

I know that soon we will all get away from each other, everyone’s paths will be different, we will go far in life but
But the place in my heart for you can never change.

Happy Diwali 2020

We all live our few moments in such a way that they always remember.
I have also lived in the same way, and now remember those few moments of last year.A lot has changed in a year. Well, but taught a lot.


This Diwali, I Send You A Lot Of Wishes For The Coming Year
Filled With Good Luck, Health, Prosperity, And Joy Hope you have a safe and happy Diwali!

It’s The Time… To Illuminate A Lamp Of Happiness It’s The Time… To Blow A String Of Sorrow It’s The Time… To Fire A Rocket Of Love It’s The Time… To Blast A Chain Of Prosperity Wishing you all a Sparkling Deepavali. May Ganpati Bappa Take Away All Your Troubles And Bless You With Immense Happiness And Cheerful Smiles May Your Life Be Filled With Positivity Warm wishes on Diwali! 

Do Something Remarkable..!

Diwali is a very big festival for all the people of India. Some Hindu people who believe in Diwali,and there are many people who, despite living in another country outside India, consider this festival with the same fog.

It is truly praiseworthy that, even after being so far away, they are keeping the values ​​of Hindu culture and tradition.
We also give gifts to each other on Diwali, and everyone wants to give unique gifts to anyone who remembers forever.

So this Diwali, do something that everyone should remember.

Today, people have gone a long way, they have got money, respect, name and fame. Nobody needs anyone.
That is why people are forgetting humanity as well.Today, people are going to big malls and markets to shop for essential items of Diwali.But, no one wants to buy things from people who are selling their hand-made things by putting their small shops on the roads.

This Diwali Please try to be a little Kind without any reason and expectation,And shop from those people who need it more, they don’t want money from you, They only want to earn their money so that they can celebrate Diwali at their home.

We do not need to be a very good person, only if we become a good person, it will also work.

If you buy ten diyas from them, then one diya can burn in their house and they can also celebrate Diwali at their house. And it will be very nice when Diwali will be celebrated at someone’s house because of you.

It’s not about the shopping or just buying something, It’s about” is a way to highlight the importance of something.

I have done it, and have also shared with you, now it’s your turn.

So this Diwali, do something that will be memorable for you and Remarkable for others.

Can you learn to love? …

Keep your heart safe, it is very sensitive. Some small things and incidents leave a deep impact on it.

When a child is born, it does not need to teach him love. He can feel the feelings that his mother has for him.

In the same way no one needs to learn love, just need to understand what love is. And Whoever understood what love is, he learns to love.

We have often seen that some people are confused with the words love and affection, because they do not understand what is the difference between the two, and due to this confusion they often  takes both emotions in the wrong place. Which is wrong.

What is love?

Love is a set of emotions that we experience. Love can also mean trust or behavior that shows your affection for someone. Love is a feeling that everyone cherishes. It makes them feel happy and important.
Love can be for many things, family, partners, pets, nature, and even for oneself. Honesty, care, and trust accompany love. As humans, we depend on one and other, and though we may be different, love binds us all together and making the world a much better place.

It has often been seen that people do not understand the difference between love and Affection

Love and Affection are two separable feelings.  The main difference between love and affection is that love is deeper and stronger than affection. If we love someone, we’ll feel affection for that person, but we don’t love everyone we feel affection for.

Love is always associated with positive feelings like caring, warmth, and happiness.

Affection is a gentle feeling of fondness, caring or liking. It is a moderate feeling or emotion compared to love. Unlike love, affection does not consist of passionate or romantic feelings. Yet, affection makes you feel safe and cared for. 

In affection you never want to see the front person unhappy whereas in love you never want to see your loved one away.

Friends are the family that you choose.

What a strange thing, Because of this corona or because of this lockdown due to corona, everyone’s life has changed a lot.Everything has changed, or we can say, has been forced to bring change.

If seen, it is good and to some extent bad.If we look at positively, the good thing is,Where it was necessary to go to the office, the work from home did a very good job. Really , I did not think at all, that I would be able to do my office work sitting with my family like this.

But the sad thing for me is that I am away from my family that I had chosen.It is said, friend is our family, and this is the relation we choose. And maybe that’s why we value them It is like a family.

I got very good friends at every stage of my age. But the friends/flatmets I have now, who I understand as family, do not know why but I have some special relationship with them. To say this is my flatments, but no less than the family.Just as we get love, affection, care, respect from our family, I get the same from them.

Yes, I am happy that I am with my parents, but I am also sad that half of my family is away.It is heard that all the happiness cannot be found together, perhaps it is also the same.

I may be here, at the far end, but my friends still give so much love today, and are waiting for when I will come.
It feels great to hear that someone misses you so much that Tears come in their eyes for you. Really Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain.

What I have known in this Lockdown, I may never know this, the people whom I consider as my own, they also want me as much. And I have understood some things , that I may or may not have earned anything, but I have definitely earned a relationship. And that is my biggest wealth for me.

One Person I’m Glad I Met

I met that person about 2 years ago. Our first meeting was nothing special.
Actually, My best friend had a habit of meeting me with every friend of her, so it was just like that.

Apart from this, I often heard him talking with my friend. Because they were also good friends, both of them used to talk on the call.
Sometimes I used to hear audio calls of both of them, sometimes I used to listen to their funny joke, fight, tease each other, and that is why I started getting to know him.

Then came a time that this friend of my friend also became my friend and sometimes meetings started.
And then during this meeting when our conversation started, he gave me a lovely name. Lucky, from then till now he calls me by this name.
We both used to work in the same office, although we did not talk to each other that much.Nor do we talk so much now, but that person is something that got me a lot to learn.

There was a time in my life when I felt the need of someone, and there was no one who could understand me, share my pain, I could get out of that.
Then this friend had helped me a lot, though everyone was giving support, but only he understood that pain.
Probably after that day, I got to know him properly.

He taught me how to be happy, what is happiness.The time was becoming very bad for me, he taught me how to fight against that time.

Perhaps he had seen all this in his life, he had endured all this and that is why he was explaining to me so well.

Both of us still do not talk everyday, but whenever it happens, it makes me laugh so much that I forget all my troubles for some time.
From this I have been able to learn that it is not necessary to talk everyday, but whenever it happens, it should happen that a person forgets all his grief and troubles, and becomes happy.

It is very difficult to find a good person in this mean world of today, I consider myself very Lucky that I have found such a good friend.😇


Man is surrounded by many feelings in his life – anger, jealousy, love, attachment, doubt, belief, competition, etc., but it has to be said that to forgive or to apologize is more than all these emotions, paramount in all realizations. Is tops all emotions.

If seen, it is a very small word, but equally difficult.
For example, if someone is apologizing to you, then that is a small thing for you.
But, if you have to ask for the same apology then that apology seems very big and difficult.

Believe it or not, this is the truth.

But do you know, the most relaxed in the world is found by apologizing.
It seems to me that  Forgiveness is not just a word, it is a task of our lives.

Saying “I’m sorry” and admitting that we did something wrong is the first step to self- improvement.

But there is also rule in this, if you are apologizing, correct that mistake too.
Otherwise you have apologized, and are making the same mistake again, so that apology has no meaning.
Always remember –
It is never too late to make things right.

A Sorry can also spoil and build many relationships.

It has been said that it is very easy to form a relationship, but it is very difficult to maintain and relationships are treated like this, by tolerating, ignoring, forgiving each other’s small mistakes, because even a wise person has said that, absolutely perfect Do not find a person in which there are no mistakes, if you do this then you will be left alone because there is no perfect person on this earth, all are made by learning from mistakes.

We never become small or big of apologizing or forgiving, just we rise above bad feelings, become lighthearted, overcome our love and affection over the person in front, that is, our personality in all these Victory is victory.