Time Is The Greatest Healer, But….!

Time is the greatest healer. This is a popular saying, but I believe that this is not completely correct. Time will do nothing for you if you do not use time properly.Time fills your wounds but, it is not the main motivation to move forward. After getting hurt, you have to try yourself to move forward in life.

It is not right to say that everything will be alright with time. Because time does not work with us, we move with time.When you leave the responsibility of your happiness and wounds on time, then you lose a lot. Because the purpose of time is not to give happiness or erase pain, memories or people. Rather, the purpose of time is to learn new people, new opportunities, and new experiences.Time and emotions should be controlled but they should not be stopped for long.

If you are doing everything to handle yourself but still not able to understand even after doing all this, whether you are going right with time or not. Then  notice that you are spending your day with regular routine or just trying to show that everything is fine.

I Learned that we should not get bored with regular routine. Regular routine means that everything is going well in our life. That’s why try that you should spend all your time in the way you like to spend. So that everything goes right in your life.

Look, Time heals nothing. Its what you do with that time that means everything.Try to control your time, believe it, by doing this, you will save yourself from unnecessary pain in future.

Perspectives

Perspectives is a very big thing. Everyone’s thinking, seeing, understanding perspective is different. If the same thing is seen or thought in many ways, then many questions and answers can be found.And many complaints and misunderstandings can be overcome.

Whatever the person thinks, the world looks the same.Some people always dream of moving forward looking at problems and some people see opportunity everywhere.Things appear according to your thinking and it happens the sameโ€ฆ

Perspective makes a huge difference on our success.If the outlook is negative, then you will still be troubled despite everything you have. Remember, it is many times easier than trying unsuccessfully to change everyone in the world, change yourself ..

Make a habit of finding happiness .. Try to find opportunities in troublesโ€ฆ because sitting by holding your head will not achieve anything ..

We can be sad even after getting everything or we can be happy even if we do not get anything. This is the perspective of looking at our lives.

Look, the perspective is always as limited as we think. So try to expand your thinking, if you can expand your knowledge, then somewhere else, the perspective of our life will also get bigger.


In every situation, there are two aspects of the situation, there are two views. One is negative and the other is positive. When we look at things from a negative perspective, we simply remain upset, depressed, remain unhappy, can harm ourselves or others, spoil our relationships with others and do not attempt to get out of that situation.

Whereas on seeing things by being positive one,finds the reason for every trouble.From every problem, difficulties and troubles find a way out.

Therefore it is better to be upset by being negative, to be unhappy, to be happy by being positive and try to get out of those situations, from difficulties, from troubles.

Things remain the same, we can change our circumstances with our perspective.





A Look Back – 2020

31st December 2020, will mark a change for all of us. It will symbolize the leaving behind of 2020 and entering a New Year which will hopefully be better. No one knows when the pandemic will end, but everyone feels like entering 2021 will be like turning a new page.

Ends are not bad things, they just mean that something else is about to begin. And there are many things that don’t really end, anyway, they just begin again in a new way.

On seeing the whole year has come to an end. The last day of the year has come and looking back, it has left a lot of memories.

This whole year has taught a lot. In this year someone has lost something and someone has gained something.
We have spent the whole year fighting, laughing, crying. We will try to make the coming year the same or better.

Leave behind what is wrong, what is bad. Go ahead with what is right, what is good.


There is nothing to say, just want to tell,
Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365-page book. Write a good one.

It all started when I accidentally picked up the wrong Luggage at the Station.

Last week has been very bad for me, because I have left my friends and have come to live in my hometown. A little crying program was also done between friends and me. ๐Ÿ˜

Because now all of us were going to move forward in our life, and our Bachelor days were over.But in all this, a very good story has happened, and that’s why this little memory will also be there for me.

Actually I was waiting for my train at the station with my 2 very closed friends. I was already upset due to being away from my best friend, Train was also preponed in that, so had to come to the station early. I proceeded towards the platform to catch my train by saying good bye to my friends, At the same time, I heard an announcement that my train which was going to come on platform 1 is on platform 2.

I had a lot of luggages, and to go up to platform 2. I had to go up the stairs, Which was very difficult for me. But I did not have much time, because my train had arrived.

I quickly took my luggage in both hands, and quickly started moving towards the platform. So far, I had climbed only 4 steps that my breath started blooming. I started sweating and I was very tired. Because my Luggages were too heavy. 2 boys asked me to help, but because I felt like that stray boy, I refused. I was still climbing the sixth staircase, that I heard some voices, I saw 3 boys standing behind me with their belongings and one of them was climbing up and coming towards me. As soon as he came close to me he said, luggages are very full, if you want, can I help you.

I looked at him, the boy was looking quite decent, and the way of talking seemed good. He said, do not be afraid, I will not run away with your luggage, you can come with me.

And I said yes,๐Ÿ˜‰

he picked up my bag and we quickly moved up to the platform. As I moved forward, my attention went to my bag, which the boy was trying to help me while he was up. That bag was not mine at all. I told him, wait…., it is not my bag. The boy smiled and said, You quickly realized that this is not your bag, For that time I felt like I messed up again, and I lost my luggage. But looking at my face, he said, hey sorry, kidding, don’t take tension, your luggeges are bringing my friend from behind, And I saw 2 boys coming down the stairs with some luggage and my bag, then my tension went down.

Before I asked him anything, he said that when the announcement was made of train, you had taken my luggage in a hurry, and before I called you, you had gone too far. That’s why I took your luggage and followed you. Because you also had my luggage.๐Ÿ˜‡

I got laughed at my stupidness and also angry. Because I always make some mistake. And before I say thank to him, he  said that the train will be missed, let’s hurry. As soon as I moved towards the train, he said, I am in the S3, which Coach are you in? I said S9. He said, it is far enough now, may I help you to go to coach S9 I said oh no no, I will go, thanks for asking, and both of us proceed to go towards our seats. I reached my compartment, put my luggages, and sat comfortably on my bearth. It was 11 o’clock, I informed my mother by calling.

Right now I was just starting to enjoy my journey that a voice came from the lower berth, that someone wants to exchange seats from the S3 compartment. And as soon as I heard the name S3, I remembered about that boy. The person who helped me also had compartment S3. I was thinking about that boy, what a good boy he was, instead of scolding me he helped me so much.

Some stories are like this, we have nothing to do with us, but whenever we remember, we start smiling.

Thinking like this, I did not know when I slept, suddenly my eyes opened at midnight. The boy who was sleeping on the bearth in front of mine was snoring loudly, This is why I lost sleep. I tried to get him up from sleep, but I could not, finally I got up and sat down. At the same time, I got a voice from the lower berth, ‘Excuse me’, will you make a little less voice, we are not able to sleep. Hearing this voice, I felt that I knew him, but how, I tried to see but I could not see.  But now the snoring had stopped, that’s why I bowed down and said thank you.  Voice came again from below, ‘Always welcome dear’.

Oh my god… I remembered,๐Ÿ˜€
it was the voice of the same boy,๐Ÿ˜…

Hey, have you forgotten, the same boy, Compartment S3.๐Ÿ˜‰

I came to know later that someone who had to exchange seats in the compartment of S3, this boy had helped him.

Don’t know why, but there was a different happiness. Because, looking at it, the day was very bad, My mood was not good, I was upset. The train was preponed, I had heavy luggages, platform numbers were changed.

But in spite of all this, I got this boy for my help. Who saved me from losing my luggages, helped me to bring my all bags to the platform. And, how can I forget snoring, ๐Ÿ˜‚which My sleep was disturbed due to this.๐Ÿ˜ฌ

Don’t know, but that boy had a very positive vibes, which made my mood completely fit.

And so far so good..  Yes, It all started when I accidentally picked up the wrong Luggage at the Station.๐Ÿ˜„

Every moment is a fresh beginning.

Every moment is a new beginning. I think strength is always in the present moment. You never stop, Our own mind changes here and at this moment. It does not matter how long we have been immersed in negative thoughts or a bad relationship or financial crisis or self-reproach. We can start making changes in it today.

Don’t you think it depends on yourself whether you are happy or unhappy.
I think that, if we want we can be happy and if we want we can also be sad. It all depends on what we want or do not want.No matter how big or bad a situation is, a new start can change everything.And I can say this with such confidence, because I have seen this by following myself.

Why think about things which are not in our hands or which we cannot change. There are so many things around us that we can think about, and we can be happy too. Now there will be people who can say that, it is good to say all this, but it is equally difficult to start or think about new beginning.

Definitely it is not always easy to capture your thoughts, because they grow very fast. Nevertheless, we can start to listen and listen to our words from now on. If you hear yourself some kind of negative words then stop in the middle. Either change the sentence or just leave it. Now if you choose those thoughts that cause problems and suffering then it is foolishness. It is like this, as if you always choose the food that makes you sick. We can do this once or twice, but as soon as we know which foods are harmful to our body, we stay away from them. It is the same with thoughts. Let us stay away from thoughts that cause problems and suffering.

Our mind decides our future. When something happens in our present, which is undesirable, we should use our mind to change that situation. And we can start changing it right away.

If you are also struggling with such a situation, then leave those things and start a fresh beginning from this moment.

I’m here…

I was in my hometown when the lock down started. Just 2 days ago, I came back to Pune.So many memories are attached to this city, even if I want to, I cannot erase it. I notice that many changes have come in the city due to this lock down. But apart from all these changes, one change was making me more nervous and uncomfortable.

Where I live, there is a school nearby. Before the lock down, there used to be small children in the morning. Every morning small children were crowded around the school.And the school used to pray at 7 am in the morning.I used to listen to that Prayer in the small children’s cute voice. In 9 months, I missed a lot, but I missed this things, too much.Because maybe I used to feel my childhood after hearing the voices of those Children’s or Maybe I was addicted to that routine. From 2 days, I have kept looking at the terrace of my building every day, but now the crowd of children like that is not there like before.

There are some memories, which do not have any connection with us, but still remembering it gives a different comfort. Maybe I had some similar connection, that’s why I feel that difference of not having those things.

I think our life is also like this, some things or people have no connection with us but due to getting used to it, we consider those things or people as part of our life and we do not want to lose that comfort.This means life is not easy or difficult, only we make it easy or difficult according to our comfort.And we will not be able to understand the true meaning of life until we go beyond our comfort zone.





Something I want to learn…

I always like to learn something new, and I keep learning. But only one such thing which I have not been able to learn till date.

Yes, nowadays I am trying to learn to say ‘No’.Don’t know why, but I can’t say No to anyone even if I want to.And perhaps for this reason, I have to deal with many problems.

But I have just come to know that it is not a bad thing to say no, if I do not like anything, or if I do not like to do anything then I should say No.

To say ‘No’ is not to be rude or self centered but to be self-respecting.
I don’t understand why we hesitate to say no, I had read somewhere that we are not that confident, that is why we cannot say No. And I think this is probably true. Perhaps I am not so confident. Does the same happen to you?

But now this is time, to give yourself the permission to say “No” to that makes you unhappy and or drains your energy. When we will say yes to ourselves, then only we will able to say No to others with love. Being able to say โ€œNoโ€ is also a fantastic skill when it comes to improving your personal life. 

I have decided that no matter what happens now, I will do what I like, and never say yes that does not give me happiness.

If you get this right too, then start “Learning to say no without explaining yourself”

A Travel Journey Of My Life That I Cannot Forget.

This has happened when I was only 23 years old and was very attached to my mother.Probably because of this attachment, I never went anywhere alone, nor did I like to go anywhere. But there came a time of my life when I had to travel far away and that too alone.

So the story started something, I had to move away from my city to Pune to do my further studies as well as job.
Now because I was from a middle class family I thought if I do any job along with studies, I will get an experience,How to talk to people and I will learn to be alone, and will be able to earn a little money which could be useful for me.
So I had already thought about how to live there, what to do, and many such small things.

I had to reach Pune before 22nd date, because the collage in which I had to take admission had some formality left and had to be completed.
So that’s why I booked the reservation for the train on the 18th.

I remember this date very well, 18 March 2017.It was the second day of Holi, the color we play.

So finally that day has come, I had packed my luggage, the reservation was confirmed. And my train was supposed to arrive at the station on 2.30.

Our train name was Maharashtra Express Gondia to Pune.There was some time left in train’s Arrival,
I turned around, took money out of my bag and took 2 chips packets and casually put the remaining money in the small corner of the bag.

Now the twist was that our train was a bit late, and one which was the second Maharashtra Express which was going from Pune to Gondia, had arrived on the platform.
Now due to this similar name train, I felt that this is probably my train and I caught the same train.

And that big twist, the seat I booked, I got the same seat in the wrong train too.And I very happily left my city, and began to enjoy my journey. Because maybe I didn’t even know what was going to happen.

A few hours later, when the train moved ahead of its 4th station, I was asked by an uncle sitting on the next seat, where are you going, beta? I also told enthusiastically, Pune.

He again asked do you really want to go to Pune? But this time there was concern with the question.
And I got a little nervous hearing this question again ,Maybe I was feeling that something was going wrong. I also removed the nervousness and asked, what is the matter?
Uncle again expressed concern, “Beta, this train is not going to Pune, we are coming from Pune and this train will go to Gondia.” You caught the wrong train,

For some time, I did not understand what to say,I could not understand what to do, seeing the tension on my face, Uncle said, Do not worry , do not take tension, we have not come very far ,get down to the next station and catch another train.
Hearing this, my tension decreased slightly, but bigger tension and twist was going to come forward.

The next station came and I packed all my belongings and got off the train somehow. Right now I had to first check the train which is going to Pune, it was very difficult for me, but still I went to the ticket booking counter and I asked, is there a train going to Pune now? The person sitting in front window said, Yes, 2 hours later.

I asked can I get a reservation now? They said, of course, 1270 rs please.
I said okay, and started looking at my small bag to get money,but I could not find my small bag in which I kept all my money, tickets, important documents, ATM and debit card.

I told the person with that window, I am not getting the money, I come in a while to get the ticket, I leave and I started thinking that I might have put all that stuff in my big bag.

Then one by one I opened up all my things, but I could not find my bag anywhere.Then I understood that the bag which I was trying to find was somewhere lost, or maybe stolen.

At a stranger city station, I was standing alone with a lot of my belongings, and I had no money,
No ATM from which I can withdraw money, nor any ID proof.


I was very angry, and crying too. But I was crying in my heart, I did not let the tears come,because I did not want any problem again, which could have been caused by my crying.
Seeing me in such a situation, some people at the station asked, is everything right? And I nodded and said yes, yes Because I did not want anyone to know what happened, because I did not want to trust anyone.

Suddenly I remembered that I had bought something at the station and put the remaining money in this bag,
I got up quickly and opened my big bag and started looking for money here and there, and suddenly I got 320 rs from one corner of the bag.I was very happy to see the money, because I had got some hope.

By the way, it was not so difficult. I could solve the problem by calling my mother at home.She could send someone back to bring me there, but I do not want that.she sent me with great confidence, because the she believed that I could go alone, stay alone. And I don’t want to break her trust.

I had decide that somehow I have to go to Pune, and have to hide this thing from my mother.Because if she knew this, she would not let me go alone again.I took out the remaining 320 rupees from the bag, and went to get the ticket counter.I asked the ticket taker near the window, which one will be the cheapest ticket, then they gave me a ticket for 250 rupees, General coach ticket.Now I had some 70 Rupas left and I had to think what to do next and how to do it. ๐Ÿ”œ

Please wait ๐Ÿ”œ

What Makes Us Happy.

Happiness is a state of bliss. If you train your brain to be in this position then it will learn to live in the same way. This is because whatever your mind says your mind believes the same. However it is not as easy as it seems.

What is happniess

Happiness, is a word that positive sensations start coming in the mind. When happiness comes, the mind is involved in everything in life. If you want to do any work in life properly, then it cannot be done without happiness.

We might tell ourselves, “If only things were different, then I’d be happy.”Earlier I used to think the same, that if it were, then maybe I would be happy.
But as I tried to change my way of seeing my way of living, I started becoming happier than before.

I once asked a very close friend of mine, what is happiness for him?
He said, if we can find happiness in what we have, then everyone can be happy.And I find this to be very true, because the expectation of all people has increased nowadays.And perhaps this is why we do not remain happy even if we are happy, because we want what we do not have.

I had read a book, it is quite a popular book, many of you must have read it.
The name of the book is The Alchemist. The book is very good, definitely read once. So it says that,

When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”


I think that every person should love themselves, when we learn to love ourselves then we will do all those things for ourselves, which makes us really happy.And when we are truly happy, everything feels right, the people around, the world around, everything.And we really need to love ourselves, in today’s artificial world we have forgotten all these things.

So ask yourself once, what do you get to be happy, because no one can ask these questions except you and no one can answer it except you.

Happiness is with you, there is no need to go anywhere.I have decided that I have to go through all my life just by laughing no matter what the situation.


Now it’s your turn, always be happy.

Do Something Remarkable..!

Diwali is a very big festival for all the people of India. Some Hindu people who believe in Diwali,and there are many people who, despite living in another country outside India, consider this festival with the same fog.

It is truly praiseworthy that, even after being so far away, they are keeping the values โ€‹โ€‹of Hindu culture and tradition.
We also give gifts to each other on Diwali, and everyone wants to give unique gifts to anyone who remembers forever.

So this Diwali, do something that everyone should remember.

Today, people have gone a long way, they have got money, respect, name and fame. Nobody needs anyone.
That is why people are forgetting humanity as well.Today, people are going to big malls and markets to shop for essential items of Diwali.But, no one wants to buy things from people who are selling their hand-made things by putting their small shops on the roads.

This Diwali Please try to be a little Kind without any reason and expectation,And shop from those people who need it more, they don’t want money from you, They only want to earn their money so that they can celebrate Diwali at their home.

We do not need to be a very good person, only if we become a good person, it will also work.

If you buy ten diyas from them, then one diya can burn in their house and they can also celebrate Diwali at their house. And it will be very nice when Diwali will be celebrated at someone’s house because of you.

It’s not about the shopping or just buying something, Itโ€™s aboutโ€ is a way to highlight the importance of something.

I have done it, and have also shared with you, now it’s your turn.

So this Diwali, do something that will be memorable for you and Remarkable for others.