A soulmate

This generation is making it so hard to find someone to actually build with.
Soulmate means the highest level of friendship. The interesting thing is that we want a soulmate like, who support us where we are week. But the deficiencies that are in us should not be in them. Actually we want them according to our convenience. We can not say it’s a soulmate.

Soulmate is who understands us, how we feel, he /she does not have to say this without saying what he/she understands he is a soulmate.
A very beautiful feeling.

I think any person in your life who has become the inspiration of any change in you, he/she is your soulmate.

It’s not at all that, emotional challenges do not come in your relationship, but in spite of the ups and down of life and in spite of innumerable shortcomings with which your soul is connected  it is your soulmate in the right way.

Nowdays people say that they are not able to maintain the relationship, but they do not understand that in order to maintain the relationship, first they have to build like that.

Every relationship will get boaring after you have been together for years. Love isn’t a feeling it’s commitment to love everyday physically and emotionally.  it’s difficult, it’s not always laugh, smiles and fun. people tend to quit when it stops being fun, and they go look for someone else, because the spark is gone. No, that’s not how it works. you want somebody to never give up on you, and love you unconditionally. then do the same. Be the change. this isn’t the movie. Love someone when you don’t want to. when they aren’t the easiest to deal with. when they are hard to love, its called a “Real Soulmate.”

Note to self

We can never change the work done in our past, but we get to see the result of those works in our present.
And our every present day, tomorrow becomes our past.

And we are very lucky that everyday we get our new today. So try whatever you do today, do good for yourself and others because tomorrow it will become past again and we will not be able to change anything.

So make it a great day.😊

Happiness in relationships

Many people associate happiness with money and many people associate it with relationships. They do not understand that they will not feel happy in their relationships as long as they are not happy themselves. Relationship problems are increasing rapidly and the main reason behind this is that we expect too much from the other person. We hope that they make us feel happy. We lie in our minds like, ‘If our partner buys us a dress, we will be happy’ or ‘If our partner is planning a surprise for us, then we will be happy’. This problem is not only with the couple but it is with each relationship whether it is a parental relationship or a sibling relationship or friendship.

Here are some facts below that can help you be happy:


Take care of yourself
Take care of yourself. Do not prioritize the other person over yourself and do not let him do the same. If you give too much priority to someone and you get nothing in return then you are preparing a recipe for your disappointment.

Get started
If you want to go somewhere, plan it yourself. Do not wait for your partner, parent or child to take you there. Let them know that they will like you if they come together. However there is no need to be disappointed if they refuse. Keep your plan going.


Give personal time
You need to give time to your partner and give your personal time to maintain a healthy relationship.

The conclusion
We set unrealistic expectations from other people in our lives and believe that if they truly love us, they will express it in the same way. This is almost certainly false. It only hurts relationships rather than doing any good. We need to understand that the only person who can make you feel really happy is yourself.

Beauty of Life

The real importance of the beauty of life is how much it holds value for others. A life spent helping others is much more valuable than a life spent in solitude. The importance of the true beauty of life lies in how it is spent for the care and help of others.The more the spread of love for others in life, the more beautiful it will be. Life is like a standing tree, facing the elements of nature, the birds and passersby, and it is more beautiful than a lonely man who keeps his eyes closed to those around him.

Found something true..

A human being can learn anything at any time. And unknowingly something new I have learned today.

Today After a long vacation, I sat down to write something, But perhaps it was happening for the first time that despite having so many things in mind, I was not able to write anything. So many questions, so many answers to those questions, lots of thinking and memories, and some untold things, Everything was going on in the mind, but still there was nothing to write.

I Was thinking something like this while sitting, then the phone rang, I picked up the phone and saw that a friend’s massage had come.By the way, I have very few friends with whom I talk, but she is a bit special, because she  also like to read and write like me. Seeing her massage, I asked her how much I am trying. I want to write so much but I am not able to write anything. She said dont worry,  it happens sometimes.

I said, it would have happened, but I used to write with such passion that it is not that my writing is over now. I felt sad, because this was the thing that used to make me happy, but now I am not able to do that either.

Then she said, maybe you are in “Writer’s block” condition, I felt a bit strange to hear, so I asked her what are these “Writer’s blocks”. Then explained to me that, this is a condition where The person who writes, that person cannot write for some time or his ability to write is reduced. and this is called “Writer’s block.”

This was the first time I heard that something like this happens, after talking to her, I searched Google and got information about many such conditions.

Then I realized how many conditions we have for humans, there are  some feelings and situation according to our every mood. If seen, human lives are very intersting, but if we want then only we can make it as much intersting. If we want, we can make 365 days of the year the best days of our lives. But if we try …

I got the solution of my writing block, but just think what mood you are in and how much intersting you can make it. Just try to be happy, the reason will be found automatically.

सुखं म्हणजे नक्की काय असतं.

कुणाला दुखं देऊन मिळवलेला आनंद कधीच सुख देऊ शकत नाही.

पण कुणाला आनंद मिऴावा, म्हणुन स्विकारलेल दुखं नेहमी सुखं देऊन जातं. – एक अनुभव

Power of the mind

Our mind has such power that it can spoil everything, or can make a lot.
It depends on you how you want to use it.

Your mind can imagine and create the life you need with limitless possibilities.
Do not let your mind stop you for anything.

For example, If we look at the sky, our mind feels that it is as much as it can see. But actually it is not so, that’s why try to expand the mind. The more you expand the mind, the better you will be able to think.

Do what comforts your soul

Comfort is that which is difficult to describe in words. It can only be felt. It is very important to be happy to live a good life but unfortunately happiness has vanished from the lives of most people. Different people have different ideas of happiness/comfort. Some people believe that it can be found in money, some people are in love then feel happy and some feel happiness and satisfaction when they do good work in professional life.

But it is often seen that people do not recognize that comfort of theirs.
Only we can understand what our comfort is from. Finding a purpose is a lifelong challenge, a lifelong struggle. A career choice isn’t necessarily going to give us that. Finding fulfillment in the things we do whether it be a career, hobby, charity, or just in our daily lives is what truly we should be “doing” with our lives.

In the easiest language, comfort means doing something that makes you happy, whether the situation is according to you or not.
And comfort is the only thing that can keep you tied to you irrespective of the situation. That is why if you know your comfort then do not let it get lost.