Happiness in relationships

Many people associate happiness with money and many people associate it with relationships. They do not understand that they will not feel happy in their relationships as long as they are not happy themselves. Relationship problems are increasing rapidly and the main reason behind this is that we expect too much from the other person. We hope that they make us feel happy. We lie in our minds like, ‘If our partner buys us a dress, we will be happy’ or ‘If our partner is planning a surprise for us, then we will be happy’. This problem is not only with the couple but it is with each relationship whether it is a parental relationship or a sibling relationship or friendship.

Here are some facts below that can help you be happy:


Take care of yourself
Take care of yourself. Do not prioritize the other person over yourself and do not let him do the same. If you give too much priority to someone and you get nothing in return then you are preparing a recipe for your disappointment.

Get started
If you want to go somewhere, plan it yourself. Do not wait for your partner, parent or child to take you there. Let them know that they will like you if they come together. However there is no need to be disappointed if they refuse. Keep your plan going.


Give personal time
You need to give time to your partner and give your personal time to maintain a healthy relationship.

The conclusion
We set unrealistic expectations from other people in our lives and believe that if they truly love us, they will express it in the same way. This is almost certainly false. It only hurts relationships rather than doing any good. We need to understand that the only person who can make you feel really happy is yourself.

Beauty of Life

The real importance of the beauty of life is how much it holds value for others. A life spent helping others is much more valuable than a life spent in solitude. The importance of the true beauty of life lies in how it is spent for the care and help of others.The more the spread of love for others in life, the more beautiful it will be. Life is like a standing tree, facing the elements of nature, the birds and passersby, and it is more beautiful than a lonely man who keeps his eyes closed to those around him.

Found something true..

A human being can learn anything at any time. And unknowingly something new I have learned today.

Today After a long vacation, I sat down to write something, But perhaps it was happening for the first time that despite having so many things in mind, I was not able to write anything. So many questions, so many answers to those questions, lots of thinking and memories, and some untold things, Everything was going on in the mind, but still there was nothing to write.

I Was thinking something like this while sitting, then the phone rang, I picked up the phone and saw that a friend’s massage had come.By the way, I have very few friends with whom I talk, but she is a bit special, because she  also like to read and write like me. Seeing her massage, I asked her how much I am trying. I want to write so much but I am not able to write anything. She said dont worry,  it happens sometimes.

I said, it would have happened, but I used to write with such passion that it is not that my writing is over now. I felt sad, because this was the thing that used to make me happy, but now I am not able to do that either.

Then she said, maybe you are in “Writer’s block” condition, I felt a bit strange to hear, so I asked her what are these “Writer’s blocks”. Then explained to me that, this is a condition where The person who writes, that person cannot write for some time or his ability to write is reduced. and this is called “Writer’s block.”

This was the first time I heard that something like this happens, after talking to her, I searched Google and got information about many such conditions.

Then I realized how many conditions we have for humans, there are  some feelings and situation according to our every mood. If seen, human lives are very intersting, but if we want then only we can make it as much intersting. If we want, we can make 365 days of the year the best days of our lives. But if we try …

I got the solution of my writing block, but just think what mood you are in and how much intersting you can make it. Just try to be happy, the reason will be found automatically.

सुखं म्हणजे नक्की काय असतं.

कुणाला दुखं देऊन मिळवलेला आनंद कधीच सुख देऊ शकत नाही.

पण कुणाला आनंद मिऴावा, म्हणुन स्विकारलेल दुखं नेहमी सुखं देऊन जातं. – एक अनुभव

Power of the mind

Our mind has such power that it can spoil everything, or can make a lot.
It depends on you how you want to use it.

Your mind can imagine and create the life you need with limitless possibilities.
Do not let your mind stop you for anything.

For example, If we look at the sky, our mind feels that it is as much as it can see. But actually it is not so, that’s why try to expand the mind. The more you expand the mind, the better you will be able to think.

Do what comforts your soul

Comfort is that which is difficult to describe in words. It can only be felt. It is very important to be happy to live a good life but unfortunately happiness has vanished from the lives of most people. Different people have different ideas of happiness/comfort. Some people believe that it can be found in money, some people are in love then feel happy and some feel happiness and satisfaction when they do good work in professional life.

But it is often seen that people do not recognize that comfort of theirs.
Only we can understand what our comfort is from. Finding a purpose is a lifelong challenge, a lifelong struggle. A career choice isn’t necessarily going to give us that. Finding fulfillment in the things we do whether it be a career, hobby, charity, or just in our daily lives is what truly we should be “doing” with our lives.

In the easiest language, comfort means doing something that makes you happy, whether the situation is according to you or not.
And comfort is the only thing that can keep you tied to you irrespective of the situation. That is why if you know your comfort then do not let it get lost.

5 Books you need to read


Bhagavad Gita

I will not only call Bhagavad Gita a book, but this book is a university in itself. You will get the solution of the hard work of your life in simple language in Bhagavad Gita. In the Mahabharata, when Arjuna was unable to understand what to do, how to do it because he was in the midst of war. Then the knowledge that Lord Krishna had given to Arjuna at that time, you will get inside it. Best books to read.

The Alchemist

The Alchemist’ is the story of a Shepherd who wants to roam the world. Wants to gain the treasure of the whole world. When he finds the treasure of the world after many ups and downs, he realizes that the treasure was already with him ‘who he himself was’. The ‘Alchemist’ book teaches us how to overcome our fears, how we can hear the voice of our heart. I will speak this book for every person who thinks that my dreams can never be fulfilled. If you think so, then you must read this book. If you want to see the world from a new perspective, then you must read this book. Best books to read

Top 5 regrets of daying

This book has been written by Bronnie ware. Actually Bronnie works as a nurse in a hospital and used to take care of the patients who are taking their last breaths.During the conversation with those patients, bronnie notices that every dying person has some kind of regret in his mind.And the amazing thing is that there was no similarity in those patients, but their regrets were similar.
And she has written about the same regrets in this book.You all must read this book once so that you too can avoid that regrets.

Rich Dad Poor Dad

This book is written by ‘Robert Kiyosaki’, he has written the talk of two fathers in this book. A father who is very poor and a father who is very rich. The poor father is the author’s own father and the rich father is the father of the author’s best friend. The one who is a poor father, that is, the father of a writer, went to work in his old way ie traditional way and continued to struggle financially throughout his life. And the rich father who changed traditional ways and became richest man. Best books to read, after reading this book, you will get to know a lot of things. Towards income, finance, success. By reading this book, you will be able to understand that it is not necessary that according to the ‘Education System’ you will get success in your life, you will have money. After reading this book your perspective will change how you can earn more from your mindset. You can get even more success.

Think and grow rich

This book written by Napoleon Hill. In this book, the author has stated the Laws (Rules) of a select few successful people, who are universal, that any person can become successful in their life by following it. Best books to read. Many people followed those laws in their lives and became millionaires, successful. And let me tell you that Napoleon Hill studied more than 20 years to write this book. At that time, more than 500 people who were successful, were rich, the author studied them. He gave so much research, so much study, so much time, so think for yourself what will be the impact of this book. And what wonderful motivational things would have been written in this book. Best books to read.

My non-biological sibling


Year 2017, Pune.

I was about to go out of some important work, then Kiran (my flatmate) gave a voice saying, hey lakshmi, ‘I have a friend who has a very good friend coming to Pune and needs a place to stay’, can I call her to stay at our flat? I said ‘yes of course, no problem’, and I went out in a hurry.

When I came back I saw a small height,  chubby girl sitting on the bed, Giving me the introduction, Kiran said, ‘this is the girl I told you about’, And then she extended her hand and said, ‘Hi My name is Geetanjali’. I too moved my hand and said, your name is very beautiful, and she smiled.

We had our first meeting just like this, and then, this chubby girl with a small height became a geet for me from Gitanjali, and I became Lakshu for her from Lakshmi. From since then, we have shared passwords, shared food, shared laughter, shared tears, shared memories, shared dreams, shared heartbreaks and screen shot. There was nothing left that we did not share. So basically she is not just my best friend, she is my non biological sister. If I have earned anything in the last few years, then she is this girl. I am 26 years old, this is the most precious thing in my life that I have earned, And  I never want to lose it.

By the way, every time, I have shown her how important she is to me. And she also knows this very well. So the thing is that now that day has also come, for which I was very happy, but even more sad to lose, that is my bestie’s wedding.

If seen in the same way, Indirectly this meant that, the right that I had on her would be taken away from me. Or you can also say that the part that came in my life, I also have to give that part to someone else. It was not that I did not lose anything before, but if I lose her too, then I will have nothing left. But it was decided. And the thing was about my bestie’s happiness, I too was happily prepared.

On the one hand I was very happy that my bestie has found a partner with whom she will move forward in her life and be happy And from the other side also sad that now our relationship will probably not be the same.

But Now I had to explain to myself that these are all right, because I too had left her in a city where we have a lot of memories.

Now the problem is that I had come home, And I have a phone anxiety, so I cannot talk more, though both of us did not need it because we can talk a lot  in silence. But she also understood my weakness that I could not talk, so perhaps I never had to say anything to her. She never judged me like other friends, why I do not call, or why she always has to call.

This girl has always faced every good, bad thing in me. And maybe these are the little things that keep us together.

25 Jan 2021.

Today is your engagement, such a big day of your life and I am very sad that I am not with you.This is probably the first time that I am not with you.
But frankly, no one can be more happy for you than me.

I know you understand my feelings,
But I feel very bad, and because I cannot speak, I had no option but to write to say sorry.

I wish that you always be happy, because the happiness of many people is associated with your happiness. Take my share of happiness if you need it, but always be happy.

I m really sorry geet And a big Congratulations.

Do you believe in magic?

Do you believe in magic or miracle?
Hearing these questions, some people will say yes and some people will say no. I think the people whose life is going according to them, they will say yes, and those who are unhappy, they will say No.

When you find yourself in a hopeless situation, remember that  Someone is always around you with a positive energy, that is magic. Just you need to be confident. Because you are the magic creator, you are the magician.There is a need to keep Believe on yourself. Just because things have not worked out exactly how you planned does not mean that nothing good can happen in your life.You cannot blame it on luck, maybe something good will happen. No matter what your situation is saying to you, God has not left you. Tell yourself this until you believe it.

It has been my personal experience that my biggest blessings come after the darkest storms. I know that when I am going through a rough time, I cannot lose hope. Because I knew nothing could go wrong with me, yes some things did not go according to me, but it does not mean that my happiness is not available to me.

I believe myself that there is magic, I believe that there are miracles.And I also believe that there is also a magic creator. I believe myself. We just need to look into ourselves. Whenever we are disappointed, we blame on luck, people, or circumstances. But have you ever tried to pay attention to your surroundings. Have you ever tried to feel positive energy around you? If not, then I think you should try this once. You will have faith in both your magic and your inner spirit.

We are all the creators/magicians of our life and we can also create magic in our life. There is a need to just trust yourself. Because magic can happen anytime in life.

“Let yourself feel everything you need to feel.”

In the society we live in, we are taught from childhood that which emotions are to be felt and which are not. Like, we should not cry, we should not get angry.

Unfortunately,  The more we try to run away from this emotions, the more we feel it.Try as much as you want, you cannot run away from these emotions. it follows us everywhere. Difficult emotions, like  anger, loneliness, fear,  confusion, are a natural part of the human experience. It’s just not possible to avoid feeling bad.

According to the society, we should not cry because it makes us look weak. And it is not good for us. But I feel like,
The issues come when we judge our emotions or refuse to feel them.
I truly believe that there is a place for every emotion and that it is totally ok to feel them.

It seems to me that this is a very important thing to remember in order to enjoy life. Far too often we try to hide and bottle up the things we feel because we are either scared of what others will think, or we think we shouldn’t be feeling that way. We think that our emotions are “wrong” in some strange way that doesn’t really make sense when you ask why. We need to feel these so-called “negative” emotions, they help us grow. By letting ourselves experience them we can learn.

Remember, “Always be true to your feelings because the more you deny what you feel, the stronger it becomes.”